Chapter 3- Graff

1. (19) What does Ender get chosen for in the end? Why does he get picked? He is chosen because he is deemed suitable due to his reaction to the bully stilson. 
2. What reservations does Ender have? He wanted to stay with valentine
3. (22) What does the soldier say about religion and large families? So is this a religious or secular society? Why? It is a secular society because it is not effected by religion and he said that having a third child is a drawback for families.
4. What does ‘Third’ mean? Why is this such a big deal? A third is the third child born into a family, it is a big deal because nobody wants a third because only the first 2 born children get free education. And him being in their house is a constant disruption.
5. (22) What do we learn about the ‘society’ what countries on earth make it up?
6. What big decision does Ender have to make? What are the reasons against it/for it? What does he decide? Why? What would you decide? He has to decide weather he wants to go to battleschool and not see his family for several years. For- It is for the overall benefit of mankind/ and not going would be selfish/ Against- He will not see his family for several years.  He decides after thinking about it that leaving would be the best option. He felt that he did not belong.